Wife might take me back

[canuck2]

I was consulting an attorney and making all the proper arrangements. The kids were already staying with me part of the week.

I just then realized I still really love my wife. I wrote a letter and all teary eyed like a little bitch I read it to her. She told me she also was unhappy and would consider it. I was elated.

We are still nowhere near to me moving back in but it's hope and I really want our family togeather again.

Any suggestions for my next move?

[KiddYidd]

Originally Posted by canuck2

I was consulting an attorney and making all the proper arrangements. The kids were already staying with me part of the week.

I just then realized I still really love my wife. I wrote a letter and all teary eyed like a little bitch I read it to her. She told me she also was unhappy and would consider it. I was elated.

We are still nowhere near to me moving back in but it's hope and I really want our family togeather again.

Any suggestions for my next move?

Gift wrap her your nuts. You lost all hand in this relationship if you get back together.

[canuck2]

Originally Posted by KiddYidd

Gift wrap her your nuts. You lost all hand in this relationship if you get back together.

pride and ego often get in the way of love.

[ValJamesRules]

Ask out the 7 to make the 10 jealous, then try for a threesome...oh sh1t, wrong thread, my bad.

Seriously, be a bit patient with this. It is too easy to get back into the same "rut" that caused the initial seperation. Some time apart may help, and don't get back together for the kids sake. Talk it out.

In the meantime, keep scouring the Want Ads and Craigslist for No Strings Attached hookups.

[canuck2]

Originally Posted by ValJamesRules

Ask out the 7 to make the 10 jealous, then try for a threesome...oh sh1t, wrong thread, my bad.

Seriously, be a bit patient with this. It is too easy to get back into the same "rut" that caused the initial seperation. Some time apart may help, and don't get back together for the kids sake. Talk it out.

In the meantime, keep scouring the Want Ads and Craigslist for No Strings Attached hookups.

Yea we both agree patience is going to be required. But we both want to be in the same house as the kids. They do count but you're right we have to want each other for sure.

And craigslist is the reason I'm in shiit to begin with.

[ValJamesRules]

Originally Posted by canuck2

Yea we both agree patience is going to be required. But we both want to be in the same house as the kids. They do count but you're right we have to want each other for sure.

And craigslist is the reason I'm in shiit to begin with.

Oh man, if it ain't facebook, its craigslist. I've had some missed connections that could have easily turned into problems if I acted on them.

I get about being there for the kids. My parents have been married for 40 years, and I am so thankful for having both of them in my life every single day.

[kam]

Why did he leave you in the first place?

[canuck2]

Originally Posted by ValJamesRules

Oh man, if it ain't facebook, its craigslist. I've had some missed connections that could have easily turned into problems if I acted on them.

I get about being there for the kids. My parents have been married for 40 years, and I am so thankful for having both of them in my life every single day.

Yea but hopefully it will draw us closer. My wife is a knockout but comes from a divorced home with a crazy mom. so she's very up and down. My zen smooths out her rough edges.

[ValJamesRules]

Originally Posted by canuck2

Yea but hopefully it will draw us closer. My wife is a knockout but comes from a divorced home with a crazy mom. so she's very up and down. My zen smooths out her rough edges.

My girlfriend has a very emotionally challenging job (animal cruelty investigator) which has caused her to be very cynical and jaded. My calm demeanor and optimism helps to even her out. Its amazing how the opposing dynamics of a relationship can work.

All the best, 'nuck2.

[cookie monster]

Try giving her a "Dick in a box"....works every time..

[JKidd]

Hopefully it works out for you.

If you still are in love and love each other, there shouldn't be a reason not to work it out.

Best of luck buddy.

[FrontLineAdmirals]

Originally Posted by cookie monster

Try giving her a "Dick in a box"....works every time..

This same thought immediately came to mind, no pun intended.

[steg1989]

Be the change you want to see in her.

[BROKEN*ORBITAL]

F*ck that. She left you once and will do it again. Best thing to do is leave her first, and get some good revenge in and f*ck with her head. I suggest taking pictures of your children while prostituting them to some homeless black male pedophiles. Send her the pictures from a random, anonymous e-mail address. It will drive her crazy, and you'll have made a little money on the side.

And don't worry about your children. They can get over it, or too f*cking bad. They're only going to remind you of her going forward from here on in anyways. The less you care about them the better, and vice versa.

[Rugged]

I think it's hilarious that you guys are taking him seriously.

Hook. Line. Sinker.